Comments on: Problems That Arise Between Birth/Adoptive Parents in Open Adoption http://christian.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/problems-that-arise-between-birth-adopti Adoption from a Christian perspective - Topics include: religion, faith, prayer, and Christian adoptive parenting. Sat, 13 Feb 2010 02:44:36 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Coley S. http://christian.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/problems-that-arise-between-birth-adopti/comment-page-1#comment-39 Coley S. Sun, 28 Jan 2007 03:12:12 +0000 http://christian-ad.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/01/27/problems-that-arise-between-birth-adopti#comment-39 <blockquote>Did you ever write back to them?” asks her caseworker.<br /> <br /> “Well, no.”<br /> <br /> “Um…it’s a little hard for anyone to carry on a one-sided relationship indefinitely.”</blockquote><br /> <br /> I like that you put this part in here Laura. I think it is good for bparents to know they have obligations in the amount of contact they have as well. <br />

Did you ever write back to them?” asks her caseworker.

“Well, no.”

“Um…it’s a little hard for anyone to carry on a one-sided relationship indefinitely.”

I like that you put this part in here Laura. I think it is good for bparents to know they have obligations in the amount of contact they have as well.

]]> By: Deb Donatti http://christian.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/problems-that-arise-between-birth-adopti/comment-page-1#comment-38 Deb Donatti Sat, 27 Jan 2007 20:51:11 +0000 http://christian-ad.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/01/27/problems-that-arise-between-birth-adopti#comment-38 I especially can relate being an adoptive mom. <br /> I am constantly trying to keep communication going. I get a seeming lack of interest and paticipation from birthparents most of the time.<br /> Is that because society gives the impression they should "move on"? It sure isn't ME.<br /> I especially can relate being an adoptive mom.
I am constantly trying to keep communication going. I get a seeming lack of interest and paticipation from birthparents most of the time.
Is that because society gives the impression they should “move on”? It sure isn’t ME.

]]> By: Jan Baker http://christian.adoptionblogs.com/weblogs/problems-that-arise-between-birth-adopti/comment-page-1#comment-37 Jan Baker Sat, 27 Jan 2007 20:18:43 +0000 http://christian-ad.www.adoptionblogs.com/2007/01/27/problems-that-arise-between-birth-adopti#comment-37 Great series, Laura!<br /> <br /> That "she's not moving on" one particularly gets me - heard it several times. Shows such a lack of understanding. Great series, Laura!

That “she’s not moving on” one particularly gets me – heard it several times. Shows such a lack of understanding.

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