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Awhile back, I wrote about the need for Couple Time. This is an area we’ve struggled with because of our son’s medical conditions. However, now that we have three children, we really need to have some quality time together, not just the dregs of whatever is left over after dealing with fast-paced life with three everyday!
This was a hard concept for me to come to. I think part of it had to do with concerns about our son’s condition and the lack of people who were trained to care for him. Part of it was just the whole “Parental Guilt” package that automatically comes with the territory.
But, now that I have three children, I realize the wisdom of having a little time away. The Lord himself often took time away from the crowds, so that he could spend it in prayer to get re-energized, and that’s how I view our Date Nights. I view my parenting as a ministry – “a field white unto harvest” – and because it is so serious a matter, I need periods of refreshing.
Not only that, but, as I’ve often said, “the best gift you can give your children is the example of a strong marriage.” Having a regular time out shows your children you value your relationship. Above all, it shows your mate you are willing to make time for your relationship.
Tomorrow night marks our second date in one thirty-day period – a record! It’s great for us, because we get to focus on each other. It’s great for the kids because they get a little independence from us. Each time we’ve gone out, they’ve been cared for by close friends, so they have the opportunity to experience other adults in roles of authority, as well as giving them time with these friends they love and cherish.
I agree date nights are very important! Have fun tomorrow night!!