There is theory that the longer you have your pet, the more they begin to look like you. Now, I’m not comparing adopted children to pets, but it is interesting how your kids begin to take on your characteristics!

Lately I’ve noticed some of the silly made up expressions I use, coming out of the mouths of my children! They rock out to the music of my favorite 70’s band, and they have a love for my husband’s favorite band, as well.

The kids mimic their older brother, both intentionally and not. They have some of his same facial expressions, and ours as well. At first, it was difficult for my oldest son - who, for nine whole years had been an only child – to grasp the concept of “copying” as flattery.

They’ve begun to react to things in the same way we do, which is both a blessing and a wake-up call to watch out! None of us use any sort of cursing, but it is interesting to hear how the kids talk about other drivers on the road sometimes!

Many of my posts this week have dealt with traditions and rituals. It has been interesting to see how the kids have begun to embrace our familial rituals and traditions.

Today marks three months since our children have been with us. Though I acutely remember “The Wait,” it’s hard to remember a time when the children weren’t a part of our family – they fit in so seamlessly with us, in terms of personality, how they look (not that it was important, but it has cut down on insensitive remarks from others), their world view – the total package.

The kids have absorbed our hectic way of life with aplomb. It’s true what they say about children and resiliency! They’ve just adapted so beautifully (though hubby and I took a little longer to adjust to three children!).

Yes, each day, the children become more and more like us!